This is where you can find info about the patches.
http://forum.aruarose.com/index.php?/forum/3-updates/If you go into a patch and scroll to the bottom you will find a link to the manual download. Use the HTTP or the Mega Upload
link... Unless you are a geek and know what to do with the Torrents.
Just click the link and then click open. It should do the rest for you.